martes, abril 22, 2008


I.~ No supongas.No des nada por supuesto. Si tienes alguna duda, aclárala. Si sospechas, pregunta.Suponer te hace inventar historias increíbles que sólo envenenan tu alma y que no tienen fundamento.

II.~ Honra tus palabras.Lo que sale de tu boca, es lo que tú eres.Si no honras tus palabras, no te estás honrando a tí mismo; si no te honras a tí mismo, no te amas.Honrar tus palabras es honrarte a tí mismo, es ser coherente con lo que piensas y con lo que haces.
Eres auténtico y te hace respetable ante los demás y ante ti mismo.

III.~ Haz siempre todo lo mejor que puedas.Si siempre haces lo mejor que puedes, nunca podrás recriminarte de nada.

IV.~ No te tomes nada como algo personal.Ni la peor ofensa. Ni el peor desaire. Ni la más grave herida debes tomar como algo personal.Quien te ofende tiene un veneno que descargar contra ti, por no saber como deshacerse de él. En la medida que alguien te quiere lastimar, en esa medida ese alguien se lastima a sí mismo.
Pero el problema es de él y no tuyo.

the Four Agreements

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

God Conscious folks pay attention to what they do and analyze the results of such, which is something everyone must understand as being important to individual growth. Honoring the God Within means you pay attention and take responsibility for your actions, beliefs and the like, taking responsibility for the whole you.

I suggest a really good tool as your evaluate yourself, is to use these. This is how you build your integrity. Take any situation you have found yourself in and ask all of these about it. Were you impeccable? When another confronts you in some way, did they go against who you know you are? If so, don't take it personally (but you are allowed your defense sometimes beloveds.

However if the person hit a nail on the head, look and see if you were impeccable or not, did you express yoursef clearly, did you take some for granted that you should not have, etc. etc. etc. These ideas used carefully can greatly enhance your personal growth, and beloveds, its ALWAYS about YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH, THAT IS THE WHOLE POINT